How to Be an Upstander (Free Printable)
A kid-friendly (6+) guide to standing up for others—with kindness, confidence, and care.
When kids see something unfair, unkind, or hurtful, it can be hard to know what to do or say. This free printable helps children understand what it means to be an Upstander (not a bystander) and gives them clear, age-appropriate tools to use their voice in moments that matter.
Created to support families, classrooms, and caregivers navigating big feelings and real-world situations—without fear.
This printable introduces kids to:
- What an Upstander is (and why their voice matters)
- What a scapegoat is, explained in simple, compassionate language
- A “Heart Check” to build empathy and emotional awareness
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5 concrete actions kids can take when they see something unfair, including:
- Saying “Stop”
- Not joining in
- Supporting the person who was hurt
- Telling a trusted adult
- Talking it out later with care
Kids are already witnessing exclusion, blame, and unkind language—at school, online, and in everyday life. This resource helps:
- Build confidence and moral courage
- Teach empathy and accountability
- Reinforce that kindness is an action, not just a feeling
- Empower kids to protect their own hearts—and others’
- Instant digital download
- Print at home or use digitally
- Free for families—because these conversations matter
At Bright Littles, we believe kids are capable of compassion, leadership, and meaningful action when given the right tools. This printable was created to help families raise thoughtful humans who know that their voice is their superpower.
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