Teaching kids about Día de los Muertos

 Día de los Muertos: Celebrating Life, Love, and Memory

When I was a little girl, my family spent holidays and summers deep in the heart of Mexico. In my early twenties, I moved there full-time to work with our family business, collaborating with incredible folk artists from across the country. Through their art — much of it inspired by Día de los Muertos — I fell even more in love with the culture, its color, and its deep connection to family and memory.

Each year, I celebrated Día de los Muertos in Pátzcuaro, Mexico — one of the most magical places to experience this beautiful tradition and the very place that inspired the beloved movie Coco. I’m excited to share more about this meaningful holiday, one rich in art, family, and remembrance of those we love.

Every fall, families across Mexico and beyond gather to celebrate Día de los Muertos — Day of the Dead — a joyful tradition that honors the lives of loved ones who have passed. Far from being spooky, it’s a celebration filled with color, music, and heartfelt connection.

At its heart, Día de los Muertos is about connection — between generations, between the living and the dead, and between the past and the present. It reminds us that love never really leaves; it simply changes form.

Building an Ofrenda (Offering)

One of the most special parts of this celebration is creating an ofrenda, or altar, at home or in the community. The ofrenda is built with care and intention to welcome back the spirits of loved ones.

Here’s how to create your own:

• Choose a space — A small table, shelf, or corner is perfect.
• Add a photo — Include pictures of family members, friends, or even pets you want to honor.
• Include favorite items — Think about what they loved — food, drinks, music, or hobbies — and add a few symbolic touches.
• Add traditional elements —
  • Cempasúchil (marigolds) — bright orange flowers that guide spirits home.
  • Velas (candles) — represent light and hope.
  • Pan de muerto (bread of the dead) — a sweet bread baked in their memory.
  • Calaveras (sugar skulls) — colorful skulls that symbolize life and rebirth.
  • Agua (water) — refreshes the spirits after their long journey.
  • Make it personal — Include drawings, letters, or art made by kids. It’s a beautiful way for children to connect and remember.

A Family Reflection

Creating an ofrenda together is a meaningful way to talk about family, memories, and what it means to honor someone’s life. Encourage kids to share stories, favorite memories, or even what they’d want on their ofrenda someday.

This ritual teaches empathy, respect, and gratitude — all while keeping traditions alive.

Words to Know in Spanish

Día de los Muertos isn’t just about remembering those who’ve passed — it’s about celebrating life itself. It’s a chance to pause, share stories, and remind our kids that love, family, and memory never fade.